What screams we are not going to last long for couples? 1 A marriage counselor said that if one person shows contempt for the other's feelings, it's over. 2 Having a kid to fix their relationship. 3 If all disagreements end in arguments instead of discussions. 4 When he smashes her face in the wedding cake and she hates it. 5 Strongly conflicting future plans. 6 Social media addiction. 7 Starting a relationship through cheating. 8 Constantly breaking up and getting back together.