AITAH for refusing to pay for my wife’s “emergency” surgery because she spent our savings on her friend’s boob job? My (34M) wife (32F) and I have been married for 7 years. We’re generally good with money, but we’ve been saving for a long overdue home renovation. Last month, I found out that my wife secretly loaned $10,000 of our savings to her best friend for a boob job. She didn’t tell me until after it was done, saying it was a “gift of kindness” and that I’d understand because her...