First and that it felt like a violation of trust. Mark got defensive and insisted that this was a wonderful surprise—a way for us to start our lives together. He said I was missing the bigger picture and that I should be excited about our future. Honestly, I just felt overwhelmed and confused. I told him I didn’t think we were ready for this and that we should focus on our wedding first. After a heated argument, I made the gut wrenching decision to call off the wedding. Mark was devastated,...