My ex husband divorced me three years ago. When we got married we agreed that we weren't going to have kids. I never wanted them, he said he didn't really want them. So yeah. Four years into our marriage he changed his mind, and he chose to divorce me because I wouldn't go back on our agreement and give him children I'm not really a big believer in divorce. I was ready to be married for the rest of our lives. We had a good marriage, but I guess he didn't love me that much if he picked kids...