FURTHER INFO FROM OP - To not have my initial post be long winded because I didnt think i needed to get into the minutia of this, I didnt bother going into those details. How I inadvertently saw it was this, he was on his phone. He did not have iMessage open currently on the screen, but the application was still open, you know how on the iphone when you swipe up and it shows all of the applications that are open and you can close them. When he was closing out the applications (something he...