My goal- which my lawyer thinks is reasonable, is to ask for alimony until I either re marry (not likely) or my 2 year old is in school full time, and to have a reasonable amount of child support until she's 18, and then we'll split college costs for all of them. When all the kids are in school, I can concentrate on getting back to work. I also plan to sell the house and buy a smaller house in a less elite section of town. The kids can share rooms, and I can live mortgage free. I'm...