Reconciling the love I have for my family with the harm their beliefs inflicted has been... one of the more challenging tasks of my life. My family taught me loyalty, strength, and the importance of heritage. But the ideals they held, the ones they pushed on me, turned my world into a cage. Those beliefs led to decisions that caused pain to others—and to myself. The more I recognized this truth, the more I struggled to separate my loyalty to who they were from the legacy of what they...