Update. So, to recap: My STBX is a cheating jerk, and he panicked and tried to erase his family. The update: This all happened on a Sunday, so there wasn't a lot I could do then. I put the kids to bed, and called my mom and cried. Then, I called my mother in law, who was horrified. My inlaws came over that night with $200 in cash and a check for much more. My father in law didn't say much, but he did fix my bathroom door (which is how he shows affection), and muttered that he would "fix...